Sometimes we wish cupid could just hit our ex with an arrow and get them to come back to us, but this just isn’t the case. There are magic of making up tips that can get the person we loved back in our arms, but there isn’t some magic angel in diapers to do it for us….unfortunately.
Losing someone we shared ourselves with for years, months and even weeks can be a devastating and traumatic thing to go through…its a break up and it hurts. I remember watching “The Sopranos” on HBO and seeing AJ go through his break up with Blanca.
He started to handle his break up in the worse way. He became depressed sitting on the couch alone watching TV for days on end, locking himself in his room in the dark, pitying himself for losing her, and getting upset at everyone else. This is just something that reminded me that there are some of us who handle break ups in the best way and some of us do it in the worse way.
The first tip to get your ex back is to have the ability to change and show change to your ex. For many people, change is difficult. I’ll take another example of this from “The Sopranos.” Tony was a psychotic monster who somehow kept Carmela with him, but he would never change his constant cheating on her with other women.
They separated many times because of this and it caused her to be a miserable wreck. All relationships are different but having the ability to change is the strongest asset we have in getting someone we love back in our arms.
Show your ex change by getting a new look, new hairstyle, new clothes, a new job, or helping the needs of others by volunteering. It could be anything, just make sure the change you make is positive and something that makes your ex wonder if things will be different if the two of you got back together.
Another magic of making up tip is to give your ex their space. Pressuring your ex to get back together with you by calling them 25 times in an hour, sending tons of text messages in a day, or stalking them by refusing to leave until they talk to you is not going to get them back in your arms.
It shows your maturity and it shows that you don’t have stability to live your life without them. So back off, and just have a strong line of communication with them. By this I mean talking to your ex on a weekly basis, and it’d be best if the two of you remained friends after the break up.
These are great tips to getting someone you loved back in your arms.
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